Monday, June 6, 2011

Down by the river


Lets go Chicken get the donkey ready.


We went to the river and gathered this dry mud which Salah is going to mix with some glue like paint and paint the mud wall of the guest house. Or thats what he explained to me.


Load up and lets go home Samir (donkey).

Thursday, June 2, 2011

Guest House



I know that many of you have heard me speak of the guest house that Salah is building. Well exciting news It almost looks like something now. I will post more pictures soon but this is a sneak peak of what the designs on the walls look like. Also my influence on the guest house. :) Today they are putting the electricy in the rooms. On Saturday Salah wil help the guy put in the tile in the last bathroom. We need to paint and install the windows and we will have two rooms. They bathrooms will still need a toilet and sink. We we hopping to have one room with the bathroom and room finished by the time we leave and the other will be finished off in a few months. Inshallah.

Interview

Salah has his interview for June 21 2011 for his Fiancee Visa.

What dose that mean. Well he has been busy requesting official documents, getting them translated, filling out other documents, putting together evidence of our relationship, and doing to the doctor. I have only been able to help with the evidence of support and follow him to the doctor and translation places.

It was so funny when he showed me his papers and how he had organized them, I was shocked. Its so in such a nice order. I made a big deal about it because I had not yet seen this serious side of Salah. Its normally me who dose these types of things.


GOOD LUCK SALAH!!!!!!

Tuesday, May 3, 2011

The many steps to a VISA

New Excitement in Salah and my life is that the visa processes is moving along.
We got the second letter saying his petition was approved on April the 15th.
This means the papers were went to the National Visa Center. Which they
O.K. everything and send them on to Casablanca on April 28th. I emailed
Casablanca this morning and the emailed back later this afternoon saying
his interview will be June 21 and the paper work is on its way to him.

That is the shorten form of the visa journey so far. We are both Excited.
Im planning on leave Morocco for the states on June 28. Right now I am
hopping that Salah will soon follow. Then we will move to Il for me to go
to graduate school. It will all work out. INSHALLAH

Friday, April 15, 2011

Chinese Food



Salah's first time using chop sticks/eating chinese food.



Giving it the good old college try.



The Food. Who knew you could find this in Morocco. YUM



Before we say goodbye.

Hassan Tower



This is the Mausoleum for King Mohamed V. It was built between 1961-1971. The architect chosen to design the Mausoleum was Vietnamese Eric Vo Toan and had the building decorated in traditional Moroccan craft work, but if you look at the very top you can see a influence from the Romans though the stain glass windows.



This is the first time Salah has ever been to Hassan Tower. I was being his tour guide for the day. I must say its much easier with one person, then like the 14 to 16 I normally take.



This was built by Yacoub al-Mansour in 1195AD. He intended it to be the largest minaret in the world reaching 86 meters high but it was stopped in 1199AD at 44 meters high. Construction was stopped when he died.



I could give you more boring information but I wont. Enjoy

Wednesday, April 13, 2011

Chella with Salah

These are pictures of Salah being a tourist in his own country. I gave him a full tour with history and important facts.
This is the main entrance to the Chella necropolis a Roman and Marinid Arabe who has several royal family tombs there.
This is a school which housed students wanting to learn the koran.
This pool would be filled with water and you would do your washings here before prayer.

You can see how beautiful and green the country side is. This area was used as a port town for the Roman and it was the farthest west they settled. 70% of the Roman Empires wheat came from this area.

BOAT RIDE


Boat ride at sun set. The buildings on the coast are an old pirate Kasbah called the Ouday in Rabat. You know Kasbah like Rock the Kasbah Rock the Kasbah. Ok this is also what is depected on the back of the 20 dhirm bill.


Or Maybe he was saying bad word in Arabic to make
Colleen go "willy willy willy"

And everyone made it back to shore dry and clean just like they got on the boat.



Monday, April 4, 2011

Life Up Date



*I got my computer back. The only down side is none of my information was saved. No pictures, music, or files. That will teach me to get a hard drive this time. They also sent it back with a whole new key board a Spanish one. It's worth it all. It was free to get it fixed and life is good again. Now I just need to buy a few more programs again and a hard drive.

*Salah is coming to visit me in Rabat this Friday.

*I got in to Graduate School at Southern Illinois University in Carbondale with a quarter time assistanship and tuition waver

*And trying to plan my life so I can start moving back State Side.

These are my 4 big news statements of the month. Soon I will have my camera and will try to post more pictures.

Thursday, March 24, 2011

SAMHI

Sorry for not writing in over a month. A lot is going on and now I am without my computer or a camera. As soon as I have both I will up date more regular. Hers my life in a nut shell.

*Working Working Working (Happy Dena)

*Two Graduate Schools Contacted me for interviews
( I had one interview today, I could of done better)

* My computer Hard drive died. Thank God I had apple care.

* I went to Madrid, Spain for one day due to work. It's a nice city and I would like to go back.

* Had a green beer on St. Patty's Day.

* Started working on ideas of things I would like to make in the future.

* Worked on planning my life out some more, well at least the next few months.

Ok that's all for now. Hope all is well with everyone.

Wednesday, March 2, 2011

Happy Birthday Peace Corps

Today is the 50th anniversary of the Peace Corps. Volunteers serve for 27 months but their service life lasting. You can find more information out about Peace Corps at www.peacecorps.gov

Joining the Peace Corps was the best decision I ever made.

Tuesday, March 1, 2011

Happy Birthday

It's offical I turned 26 on the 26th of Feb. :)

Sunday, February 20, 2011

Good Book


THIS BOOK IS SO SO SO SO SO GOOD.
I read it last week in just a few short days and I'm a very slow reader. So it has to be good now I'm watching the movie. my Older brother Drew is teaching this to his Freshmen English Class in Small town Kansas. They are lucky kids to have such a cool teacher.

Having fun working in the feild


Fatimazahra and I doing men's work.

Salah teaching Fatimazahra how to eat sheep food.


3ide


Mawlid Holiday

Is the observance of the birthday of the prophet Mohammed.

If you want more information on it you can look it up on Wikipedia. Interesting fact about the holiday it was first observed by Shias later adapted by the Sunnis. I went to Zagora to celebrate the holiday with Salah and his family. The day after the feast and cookies his sister Nadia painted my hands with Henna.

Mud Wall Design's


That's me starting the drawing on to the mud wall.
Finished Product.



Salah Got His Passport and National Card


Way to go Salah.

Wednesday, January 26, 2011

Keep in mind

“There is only one thing that makes a dream impossible to achieve: the fear of failure.” The Alchemist by Paulo Coelho

This maybe silly but this is something I feel myself over and over every day and it helps me to keep my life interesting. In the past years I have failed to achieve everything I want but have learned many valuable lessons along the way. I also would have to say there are many things that wouldn't of happened if I didn't just take the chance. I'm thankful for my strong support system and their faith in me. Without them I would of never made my dreams come true.

I would of never...
Finished University
Learned how to cast iron
Applied for the Peace Corps
Went to Morocco for two years and three months with the Peace Corps
Learned a New language
Traveled by myself in a different country
Learned how to rely on myself
Apply/Got a Job working in Morocco doing cross culture education
Got engaged
Applied to Graduate School

Most important be happy with my life and what I have achieved.

I like to say this phrase. I LOVE MY LIFE.

When I envisioned my life at 16 I thought it would be impossable to acheive all that I wanted to. I'm so very thankful that I am almost 26 and happy about the present and excited for the future.

Again thank you for all the support.

Tuesday, January 25, 2011

Salah's Personality Test

Salah's Personality Test. He was an Orange. Some of it is a lot like him but not all of it. And some of it's just plain funny.

In Relationships

Orange people seek a relationship with shared activities and interests with their mate. They like to explore new ways to energize the relationship, have a wide variety of friends, and prefer to be with people who like to have fun and are spontaneous. They tend to be laid back and flexible so you can choose what to do when the moment arrives.

Oranges

Need to feel that they are in control — not necessarily of others, but most definitely of themselves. Even if they are following orders, they need to feel some sort of freedom to follow the orders in their own fashion.

When Oranges shine they are versatile, spontaneous, self-confident, resourceful, and decisive. Their playful manner can brighten up a mundane chore and add fun to a workday. They prefer to not having to plan more than 10 minutes into the future, and everything is about them.

However, oranges can be very intimidating when they are stressed or low on esteem. They can become exceedingly pushy, aggressive and confrontational, even physically violent. Placed in an overly restrictive environment, they will go to great extremes to gain their freedom or control.

Areas to be aware of

What stresses an Orange person

  • Lack of freedom or choices
  • Feeling trapped
  • Rigidity
  • Being forced to do something another person’s way
  • Not being able to use their skills
  • Strict guidelines or rules
  • Forced to keep quiet or not participate
  • Insufficient attention
  • No sense of humor
  • Waiting Slow actions
  • Indecisiveness
  • Routine
  • Lack of sex
  • Details
  • Paperwork
  • Inactivity
  • Lack of Money
  • It is the Orange who laments, “What do you mean I’m out of Money? I still have checks left!”

  • Being exposed to stressors for a long period of time leads to behaviors such as:

  • Acting rude and with defiance
  • Breaks rules on purpose
  • Fails to complete things
  • Runs away
  • Quits job
  • May joke or tease inappropriately
  • Overly competitive
  • Manipulative
  • Lying and cheating behavior
  • Violent behavior

  • Oranges need to remember:

    That at times your energy is overwhelming. Others may perceive you as shallow and flighty. Take the time to organize your thoughts and complete what you start. Work harder at being on time and maintaining eye contact with people when they are talking.

    Important information for significant others

    Understand their need to multitask — “My wife is one of those people who can talk on the phone, change the channel on the TV, and discipline the kids… all while she is driving!” Grant them attention — after all, it’s all about them anyway. ;^) Make it a game.

    Get out of their way – Oranges would like nothing better than to have lights and sirens on their cars. If you see them coming, treat them like an emergency vehicle, just pull over and get out of their way.

    Freedom: they need distractions and relief. If one Orange we know is in the house for more than four hours, she needs to be taken for Slurpee run. She loves camping, but if she hasn’t hit a 7-11 or something to do with civilization in a couple of days she goes nuts — she even had to bring our living room TV out to the campfire for something else to stare at.

    True Color Personality Test

    I took the true colors personality test with my family over Christmas and recently just took it with Salah. I was was ranked as a gold and Salah is a Orange. Below you can see the result of my personality test. I will post Salah's later. Poor guy :)

    You have a GOLD personality style!
    Your core Values are Tradition, Loyalty, and Family.
    Your core Needs are belonging through Duty and Responsibility.

    Helpful Insights into a Gold Personality

    In Relationships

    You are serious and tend to have a traditional, conservative view of both love and marriage. You want a mate who can work along with you building a secure predictable life together. You demonstrate love and affection through the practical things You do for your loved ones. You like to plan parties and events around the holidays and special occasions. There is a strong sense of right and wrong that can sometimes lead to conflict.

    Golds

    Golds need to feel a sense of belonging at home, at work, at school, in the community, or in any group with which they are involved. Feeling like an outsider or outcast is very disturbing to them. They are, therefore, very responsible and adhere to the norms of the group.

    When Golds shine they like to do things to help. They are task and structure focused as well as serious and hardworking. They like to plan ahead and keep things organized. They care for their health and are dependable, reliable, and conscientious. Golds are respectful, responsible, and cooperative. They usually place traditions and family time high on their priority lists.

    However, when fatigued or stressed they may become overly rigid, self-righteous, and possessive. Natural positive attitudes can turn pessimistic, negative and highly opinionated. They may become compulsive, and get physically sick.

    Areas to be aware of

    What stresses a Gold person:

  • Lack of follow through when others don’t do what they’ve promised
  • Taking on too much responsibilities
  • Irresponsibility in others
  • untrustworthiness
  • When things are not put back where they belong
  • Not adhering to schedule or plans
  • Lack of closure – having to switch what they are doing without completing it first
  • Many things going on at the same time
  • Indecision
  • Change
  • Unclear expectations, lack of rules instructions
  • Not knowing where they fit in
  • lack of membership or belonging

  • Being exposed to stressors for a long period of time leads to behaviors such as:

  • Complaining and self pity
  • Exhibits anxiety and worry
  • Reacts physically to stress
  • Judges self and others harshly
  • Exhibits “blind herd” mentality
  • Displays negative attitude
  • Becomes controlling, rigid and close-minded

  • Golds need to remember:

    At times Golds are perceived as the keepers of the law. In their respect for doing things well and right, you might come across as more concerned for the correct answer than the loving response. The rules are not always as important as the spirit of the rule.

    That the people around you might need you to see the big picture, it’s okay to be late from time to time, and that some rules are made just so that they can be broken. Flexibility goes a long way in bringing people together, and relationships are more important than obligations.

    Important information for significant others

    Be Responsible. If you said you would do something, do it. Keep your agreements with a Gold person. Golds are dependable and they expect others will be as well. This shows them respect and appreciation.

    Provide clear expectations. They want to know where they stand and what is expected of them. To leave them guessing is one of the most stressful things you can do to a Gold. If they have guessed wrong and can violate some unspoken rule they can be crushed. After all, they were doing the best they can under the circumstances, and now they have done something “wrong”. They try at all costs to be “right” and appropriate.





    Trip Around Morocco

    Trip Around Morocco. It's best if you view these pictures from the bottom up so that you see them in order. There are many more pictures but these are just a few of the highlights.


    This was during out outing to the Zagora (tzagort) Mountains for afternoon tea picknick.
    Salah is playing house with his neices (habibas).


    Salah had a head start because he's a cheater.


    cutest puppy ever that Salah wouldn't let me have...:_(


    This was Salah's reward for scaling the wall and crossing the freezing cold river. Its pretty cool but I'm to much of a scary pants to even try it.


    We were all waiting for Salah to bit it and fall in the freezing cold river below. He made it there and back to land safe and dry. Humdullah


    Water Sources that our friends Alicia & Aziz took Salah, Brahim, and I to.


    Volubilis Roman Ruins in Morocco outside of Meknes

    Salah's sister Fatima's new baby Marwa.
    She is beauitful just like her moma and so happy too.

    Saturday, January 15, 2011

    Day One Back in Morocco


    I schooled Salah in bowling. I must show this off because it's the one thing I have found that I am better at then him. Mwhahahahahah. It was also the first time I have won a game when playing with my roommate Colleen. :)

    Tuesday, January 11, 2011

    New Hair


    My first new hair cut and color in a long long time.
    Yes. I'm that vain, but I do it all with a smile.
    :)

    Thursday, January 6, 2011

    BAGS


    My mother and I worked together on this project. She showed me these bags she made in a smaller version and I deiced to make them 4 times larger with her help and painted them up for a little bit of a different flair. Hope you enjoy them.

    Tuesday, January 4, 2011

    GRAD SCHOOL

    I finished my 6 grad school applications today and sent them off in the mail. The list: University of Georgia, Athens, University of Montana, Missoula, Southern Illinois University Edwardsville, Southern Illinois University Carbondale, and University of Tennessee Knoxville. Now I have to make sure the applications get there along with the rest of the material. Crossed fingers wish me luck.

    Monday, January 3, 2011